Can we say girls are blind or dumb enough to get drunk and leave with the first stranger they meet too? I don’t think most people want a gold digger, but all gold diggers lie about it until somebody bites the bait. In the same way, rapists don’t wear rapist t-shirts in front of their victims. So let me get this right… Men can be dumb for being victims of gold diggers, so it is the guy’s fault. However, if someone rapes a woman, nobody can tell her she is dumb for being a victim of rape. Check out the double standards. Or even better, what if a woman messes with a gold digger and the guy gets her money and leaves her, is the woman dumb enough for messing with the gold digger, or do we blame the patriarchy and call the guys and asshole?
We ALL need feminism as long as society deems it more appropriate to tell women “how to not get raped/groped/molested/abused” than to teach people (mostly men) how not to rape.
Way to be bitch about it by saying “mostly men.” Like WTF, every gender rapes so STFU…….Oh mostly men rapes… OK I give you that. What about teach people not to be gold diggers (mostly women) either. I mean I’m not saying women are the only gold diggers, but most gold diggers are women, and be a gold digger is bad too.
OMG really? Here’s a difference: with the schmuck (of any gender) who gets “gold dug” it’s because they’re too stupid, or blind to what’s going on, not to let it happen. Someone raped is forced to do something they never wanted and get no benefit from.
Clearly you’re working from a misogynistic mindset so there’s really no point continuing. I’d rather not fight a battle of wits with an unarmed opponent.
Let me try & explain this to you in small words:
"…what if a woman messes with a gold digger and the guy gets her money and leaves her, is the woman dumb enough for messing with the gold digger," -YES
"Can we say girls are blind or dumb enough to get drunk and leave with the first stranger they meet too?" - DOES THIS MEAN IT’S OK TO RAPE HER? NO.
Again: battle of wits with an unarmed opponent. I’m done.